See the positive
Sometimes you go
through a phase in life which can’t be explained verbally, only emotionally. Be
it complications or obstacles, there would be no existing words for what you’re
feeling.
But there’s one thing I
know about life, it is never plain sailing. Other than that it could be that
you don’t have any problems associated within you, but within the ones closest
to you. Truly, some humans create problems for anything.
Sometimes people are so
complicated that when you try to help them they backfire at you due to their
nervous system, caused by the stress of their problem itself. They wouldn’t appreciate
anything you’ve done for them, they’d forget that others have feelings too,
they would misinterpret you and it’s not their fault, It is only their nervous
system acting. But you should never leave anyone at that state, not even a dog,
never mind someone so close to you.
You should always give them a hint of
positivity and rest assure them that this is only a phase, and that it will get
better. After the problems are solved, they will appreciate you even more.
At a certain point in life, everybody will go through this phase, and everyone will need at least that one person that supports them all the way. During that phase, us human beings tend to think negatively all the way, that is why we backfire at people which try to help us. But really- is everything bad and negative in your life? No! There are so many beautiful things in our lives which we tend take for granted. For example be it your health, and your family.
Next time you find yourself stuck during a bad period in your life, remember to see the good, apply positive thinking and strive to give your best effort. Think of failure as an opportunity and start analyzing what went wrong. You will overcome your immediate problems and realize that you’re ready for greater challenges. After all, you know what? After thunder and lightning, the sun shines for everybody.
You're going to go through tough times- that's life. But I say, 'Nothing happens TO you, it happens FOR you.' See the positive in negative events. - Joel Osteen
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